Because I can't (or at least never experienced the feeling of) love, I'd describe my part of a relationship as a combination of interest, sexual attraction, respect. In my experience, the most prevalent is something called love If someone is in a relationship with a psychopath, or still in contact with one. Are you in a relationship with a psychopath? Australian author 'I've done my crying here': Lipstick Queen's Poppy King 'I don't feel guilty.
I invest in these relationships therefore I have to take in as well as I understand the balance is important however I do that within my own code of conduct. To begin with I chose high quality partner, intelligent, smart, strong and even littlebit agressive to get enough stimuli.
I like intense woman as without that I get bored easily so keeping my interest is important. She as well has to be extremely pleaser sexually,no boundaries and it's stimulating my reward system so I find myself obsessive in sex and need a lot of it. If you can't handle or can't push me there you out. On the flipside it gives you experience you won't forget either. I sense every single form of manipulation, and you will get your dose of medicine if you try to manipulate me.
No chance you make me do something I don't want.
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If you ask for conflict you re irrational and I have to remind you that your actions has consequences which will benefit you later to select better what worth to waste time and energy or not. It's again comes down to stimuli.
Same applies to teasing. As I said I understand the success of the relationship requires keeping some level of balance and efforts. I can make efforts are not ordinary which ensures your commitment and loyalty,also I don't violate your freedom which makes me unique in your eye and you want that since I show you how that feel like.
In the same time it just tie you more to me as you feel good and free to be yourself and only I give you that privilege. I do not control you, as I said I treat my intimate relationship completely different so you re unique in my eye,so don't fuck it up as you will be cut off faster than blink of an eye and I have no regrets.
I dont know about others but I don't mirror anyone. It is because my strong sense of self and indifference.
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As a result, you feel constant anxiety about your relationship. They have no past. You will rarely be introduced to anyone who knows them from before you met.
These people will not give good reviews, so you are kept away from them.
They will sabotage and sever your relationships. They will work hard to cut you off from your friends and family. They will work to make you feel uncomfortable around the people you used to feel most comfortable with. They want you to be dependent and loyal only to them. They do not want other people telling you your partner is a nutbag. They are jealous and they will actively exclude potential partners from your life. Often when there is no reason to lie at all. But they always have a plausible explanation at the ready.
Nothing is ever their fault. They are fantastic at rationalising their behaviour but never change it.
They deny their own previous statements and behaviour. They dismiss your attempts to present evidence of lies and, as a result, you often leave a conversation with them doubting your sanity. You will frequently be accused of being too sensitive.
You pay for almost everything. They will move into your home. They will use your car. They will often need to borrow money from you. You become yesterday's news.
Once they have hooked you, you seem to suddenly bore them. They give you the silent treatment and rebuff you for trying to rekindle the relationship you thought you had. They will sometimes disappear for days at a time with no contact and no explanation. They are usually working on the next conquest during this time, or are simply two- or three- timing you. If they sense this pushes you too far, you will get a little more love-bombing to reel you back in.
You will be dropped like a hot potato.